Ep 14: Am I Worthy? How To Tap Into Your True Self-Worth
"You will NEVER consistently outperform your self-worth."
— Dave Conway
Most people think success is about strategy, skill, or even sheer effort. But what if the biggest factor holding you back is your self-worth?
In this episode of The 30-Day Year Podcast, Dave and Jacqueline Conway dive into one of the most overlooked barriers to success - the belief in your own worthiness.
Whether it’s pricing your services, stepping into wealth, or simply allowing yourself to experience a better life, self-worth plays a crucial role in everything you do.
Dave shares personal stories of discovering his own self-worth struggles—despite always being seen as confident… and how overcoming them was the breakthrough for achieving new levels of success.
Key Takeaways from Episode 14:
1. The Difference Between Confidence and Self-Worth (0:03:22)
Many assume confidence and self-worth are the same thing, but they’re completely different. Confidence is about self-assurance in your abilities, while self-worth is about believing you deserve success, love, and abundance, without external validation.
2. Bob Proctor’s Coaching and A Shocking Realization (0:05:30)
During an advanced coaching session with Bob Proctor, Dave realized that his deep anxiety after buying his dream car wasn’t fear - it was actually a self-worth issue. Bob pointed out that Dave had an unconscious belief that he wasn’t worthy of nice things, and that revelation changed everything.
3. The Hidden Signs of Self-Worth Struggles (0:07:42)
If you’ve ever felt guilt, shame, or anxiety when upgrading your life, whether flying first class, charging higher prices, or moving into a better home, your subconscious mind might be resisting your growth. Recognizing these hidden blocks is the first step to transformation.
4. Why Placing Yourself in Elevated Environments is Crucial (0:12:48)
Self-worth isn’t just a mindset, it’s reflected in your physical reality. If you’re uncomfortable in luxury settings or around wealthier individuals, it’s a sign your self-image hasn’t caught up to where you want to be. Surrounding yourself with higher-level experiences is key.
5. Pricing & Self-Worth: What You Charge Reflects Your Belief in Yourself (0:23:16)
One of the biggest struggles in business is massively undercharging because of low self-worth. Dave shares stories of helping entrepreneurs 10X their pricing—and the simple mindset shift that allowed them to confidently charge what they’re truly worth!
6. The Law of Compensation (0:28:28)
Success isn’t about what you think you deserve.. It's about how well you serve others. There are three laws that govern your income. Dave covers what they are in this episode.
7. Dave’s Self-Worth Challenge To You: Changing Your Perception of Value (0:40:45)
Want to test your self-worth? Dave challenges listeners to intentionally place themselves in elevated environments… whether it’s booking first class, upgrading furniture, or simply investing in a better version of what you already have. Your reaction will tell you everything about where your self-worth currently stands!
Listen to the Full Episode Now!
This episode is jam-packed with eye-opening insights on how self-worth impacts your life and finances more than you realize. If you’ve ever questioned whether you truly deserve success, this conversation will change your perspective forever.
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0:00:00 - Introduction & Episode Preview
0:03:22 - Exploring Confidence & Self-Worth
0:05:30 - Bob Proctor’s Coaching Experience
0:07:42 - Exploring Self-Worth Through Personal Experiences
0:12:48 - Reflections on First Class Travel
0:15:03 - Exploring Self-Worth & Financial Comfort
0:21:27 - Insights on Valuing Passionate Work
0:23:16 - Pricing & Self-Worth in Business
0:28:28 - Understanding the Law of Compensation
0:36:40 - Improve Self-Worth by Changing Your Environment
0:40:45 - The Self-Worth Challenge
0:42:30 - Wrap Up & Conclusion
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About The 30-Day Year Podcast
The 30-Day Year Podcast teaches ambitious entrepreneurs the mindset philosophy that has the power to reshape their lifestyle and business results forever!
Every week, join 8-figure Mindset Mentor and world-class speaker, Dave Conway to redefine how you achieve success by taking control of your thinking around setting goals, earning money, shaping habits, creating your mastermind and more. As a coach and mentor, he has helped thousands of entrepreneurs multiply their income, all while finding peace of mind, serenity and fulfillment.
His co-host, Jacqueline Conway, is his wife, business partner and the CEO of their company Conway Mentorship. Together they share the stories, practices, ups and downs and ultimate life lessons that led to their personal, financial and business transformation.
Listen to reveal the mindset shifts that unlock deeper meaning for goal setting, personal growth and financial prosperity.
